Mission Statement
We, the Carmelite Sisters of Our Lady, are women of prayer and women of mission. In the spirit of detachment and humility, and with zeal and dedication, we commit ourselves to be messengers of God’s love as Christian formators and educators. We lead the youth to be responsible, mature, and Christ-centered in their decision making, choices in life, and relationship with other people and the rest of God’s creation.
History of the Carm. O. L.
- The Congregation of the Carmelite Sisters of Our Lady was born on February 11, 1982 in Dumaguete City, Negros Oriental.
- In May 1962, the Sisters of Mt. Carmel from Louisiana, USA, opened a mission in the Philippines through the invitation of Bishop Epifanio B. Surban. He asked Msgr. Fidelis Limcaco, a Carmelite priest assigned in Escalante, to find Carmelite Sisters who can teach in the parochial schools. While in the States, Msgr. Limcaco met the Carmelite Sisters of Louisiana and talked to them.
- Mother Marcella Foret, who just retired as Superior General of the Order, informed Bishop Epifanio B. Surban during her visit to the Philippines with another Sister that they would only serve Dumaguete if the bishop would send girls to join the order. Pantaleona Deloria (Sr. Mary Rose) and Erlinda Nadela (Sr. Linda Nadela) joined the Sisters of Mt. Carmel in Louisiana, New Orleans, with some others, and returned as professed Sisters to serve the diocese.
- The dream of Mother Marcella Foret was to serve the diocesan schools in Dumaguete. However, after Mother Marcella was transferred to Manila and later died of a heart attack, and Sr. Carmelita left for New Orleans, the new leaders of the Congregation moved towards social ministry. In 1981, the new leadership in the Philippines was moving the Sisters out of the classroom in Dumaguete.
- Sr. Mary Rose Deloria wanted to continue the dream of Mother Marcella Foret to strengthen the religious education of the diocesan schools in Dumaguete. She discussed her plan to separate from the Congregation with Bishop Surban. Sr. Linda Nadela, who also wanted to leave the Congregation, joined Sr. Mary Rose Deloria. Bishop Surban, who was very encouraging and supportive of the Sisters’ decision, advised them to seek advice from his trusted vicar, Msgr. Tomas Q. Avenido, who in turn told them to see the Nuncio, Msgr. Bruno Torpigliani. The Nuncio then advised them to meet with Archbishop Oscar Cruz, a canon lawyer. Archbishop Cruz advised them to write the Sacred Congregation of Women Religious in Rome, with a copy sent to the General Council of the Sisters of Mt. Carmel in New Orleans mailed on the same day. The Sisters wrote the letter in September 1981, and they received a response from Rome in November 1981.
- Sisters Linda Nadela and Mary Rose Deloria continued to the next step of forming the new community. Bishop Epifanio B. Surban approved the desire of the Sisters to establish a Religious congregation in his diocese. On the same day, February 11, 1982, Sisters Mary Rose Deloria and Linda Nadela signed the Indult of Secularization in the presence of the Superior of the Sisters of Mt. Carmel and in the afternoon, they professed their vows in the presence of eight (8) priests from the diocese, some Religious Sisters, and friends of the Sisters. Bishop Salvador T. Modesto, Auxiliary Bishop of the Diocese of Dumaguete, officiated the Holy Mass as a delegate of Bishop Epifanio B. Surban leading to the establishment of the Congregation of the Carmelite Sisters of Our Lady.
- Bishop Epifanio B. Surban, who received the inspiration and the grace of the Holy Spirit in establishing the congregation of the Carmelite Sisters of Our Lady, is considered the Charismatic Founder of the Institute. Sr. Mary Rose Deloria and Sr. Linda Nadela are the Co-Charismatic foundresses. The Congregation of the Carmelite Sisters of Our Lady is of diocesan right. The Sisters are present in the different dioceses and archdioceses in the Philippines, as well as in the archdioceses of Seattle and Vancouver serving God’s people as women of prayer and women of mission.
Spirituality
As Carmelite Sisters of Our Lady, our Carmelite Spirituality is incarnated in our way of life, captured by our experience of contemplation amidst apostolic demands and the presence of people. Our desert experience is our constant companion and is actualized in our kenosis- an emptying of oneself and a constant listening to the Word of God.
Charism
As life-givers and life blessings, we dedicate ourselves to the redemptive mission of the Church in contemplation and apostolic action through Christian formation and education for the young and through teaching and evangelizing, conducting retreats and Christian formation seminars, pastoral works, and other special ministries as our response to the needs of our time.
apostolate/ministries
School/Education
We are dedicated to providing quality education infused with Christian principles. Founded on the belief that education is not just about acquiring knowledge but also about character formation, we strive to create a holistic learning environment. Our mission is to empower students with knowledge, values, and skills that will enable them to lead fulfilling lives and contribute positively to society. We aim to cultivate a love for learning, a sense of responsibility, and a deep-rooted faith in God.
Our dedicated team of Sister-educators brings a unique blend of academic excellence and spiritual guidance to the classroom. We integrate Christian teachings into every aspect of the curriculum, helping students develop a strong moral compass. We actively engage with the community, organizing outreach programs, and instilling a sense of service and compassion in our students. Rigorous academic programs designed to challenge students intellectually and foster critical thinking. Regular prayer sessions, retreats, and religious education classes to nurture spiritual growth. A range of extracurricular activities including sports, arts, and clubs to encourage well-rounded development. Opportunities for students to engage in community service projects and develop a sense of social responsibility.
We believe in educating the whole person – mind, body, and spirit. Our Sister-educators are highly qualified and committed to providing a nurturing learning environment. Our focus on Christian values such as love, compassion, and integrity sets us apart. We have a history of academic excellence and producing graduates who excel in their chosen fields. Whether you’re a parent looking for a school that values both academics and character development or a passionate educator seeking to join a mission-driven team, we invite you to be part of our vibrant community. Join us in building a brighter future, one student at a time, as we strive to make a difference in the world through education and faith.
Youth Formation Ministries
Welcome to Our Youth Formation Ministry!
We are dedicated to empowering young people to grow in faith, character, and leadership. Our youth formation programs provide a nurturing environment where young individuals can explore their spirituality, develop valuable life skills, and become active contributors to their communities.
We are committed to the holistic development of young people, focusing on their spiritual, emotional, and social well-being. Through engaging programs and meaningful experiences, we aim to inspire and equip youth to live purposeful and meaningful lives.
Our Mission is to guide and support youth on their journey of faith and personal growth. We seek to foster a deep connection with God, promote positive relationships, and empower young people to make a difference in the world around them.
What We Offer
- Faith Formation: Opportunities for youth to deepen their understanding of Christian values, beliefs, and practices through study groups, retreats, and discussions.
- Leadership Development: Training and mentorship programs designed to cultivate leadership skills, encourage responsibility, and promote servant leadership among youth.
- Community Engagement: Service projects, outreach initiatives, and collaborative efforts that enable youth to actively contribute to their communities and make a positive impact.
- Social Activities: Fun and engaging social activities, events, and gatherings that provide opportunities for fellowship, friendship building, and wholesome recreation.
Retreat Ministry
Retreat Ministries dedicated to providing spiritual retreats and programs aimed at fostering personal and communal growth in faith. They offer various retreat formats, including weekend retreats, silent retreats, and themed retreats tailored to different demographics such as men, women, couples, and youth. Retreat Ministries emphasize spiritual renewal, prayer, reflection, and community building, often held in serene and conducive environments away from daily distractions. Their mission centers on deepening participants’ relationship with God and supporting them in their spiritual journey through guided sessions, worship, and fellowship.
Social Services
Social services encompass a broad range of programs and initiatives aimed at supporting individuals and communities in need. These services typically include welfare assistance, healthcare access, housing support, counseling, and educational programs. The goal of social services is to enhance well-being, promote social justice, and empower individuals to achieve self-sufficiency. They are often provided by government agencies, non-profit organizations, and community groups, addressing various societal challenges such as poverty, homelessness, mental health issues, and family welfare.
Catechesis
Catechesis refers to the education and instruction of individuals in the principles of a particular faith, particularly within the context of Christianity. It involves systematic teaching, usually conducted by trained catechists, aimed at deepening understanding of religious beliefs, traditions, and practices. Catechesis typically occurs in structured settings such as classes, workshops, or one-on-one sessions, and it is designed to nurture spiritual growth, strengthen community ties, and prepare individuals for sacraments or rites within their faith. The process often includes studying scriptures, learning prayers, exploring doctrines, and applying teachings to daily life, fostering a deeper connection with the faith community and its beliefs.
Pastoral Care
Pastoral care involves providing support, guidance, and assistance to individuals and communities within a religious context. It encompasses various activities aimed at addressing spiritual, emotional, and practical needs, often offered by clergy, chaplains, or trained volunteers. Pastoral care includes counseling, prayer, visiting the sick and elderly, conducting religious ceremonies, and offering comfort during times of crisis or grief. The goal is to nurture spiritual well-being, foster a sense of belonging, and promote holistic health within the community.
Health Care
Health care refers to the organized efforts and systems aimed at promoting, maintaining, and restoring health. It involves the diagnosis, treatment, and prevention of illnesses, injuries, and other physical and mental conditions. Health care services are provided by a variety of professionals, including doctors, nurses, therapists, and other allied health professionals, often within hospitals, clinics, and other medical facilities. The goal of health care is to improve overall well-being, enhance quality of life, and ensure access to essential medical services for individuals and communities. It encompasses preventive care, primary care, specialized treatments, and ongoing management of chronic conditions, supported by medical research, technology, and public health initiatives.
Spiritual Direction/Accompaniment
Spiritual direction, also known as spiritual accompaniment or spiritual guidance, is a process where an individual (the directee) seeks guidance and support from a trained spiritual director or companion. The focus is on exploring and deepening one’s relationship with the divine, spiritual growth, and discernment of God’s presence and will in their life.
Key aspects of spiritual direction include:
- Listening and Discernment: The spiritual director listens attentively to the directee’s experiences, reflections, and concerns, helping them discern spiritual insights and movements.
- Reflective Dialogue: Through conversation and reflection, the spiritual director assists the directee in exploring their spiritual journey, questions, doubts, and experiences of God.
- Prayer and Contemplation: Spiritual direction often involves practices of prayer, meditation, and contemplation, fostering a deeper connection with the divine.
- Integration of Faith and Life: The process helps individuals integrate their faith beliefs and values into their everyday life and decision-making.
- Confidentiality and Trust: Spiritual direction is conducted in a confidential and non-judgmental environment, fostering trust and openness between the director and directee.
Overall, spiritual direction aims to support individuals in their spiritual growth, deepen their relationship with God or their spiritual path, and navigate challenges or transitions with greater awareness and discernment. It is offered across various religious traditions and can be beneficial for individuals seeking to explore and deepen their spiritual journey.
Campus Ministry
Campus ministry focuses on providing spiritual and religious support to students and faculty within educational institutions, typically colleges and universities. It aims to nurture faith development, promote moral and ethical values, and foster community engagement among students and staff members. Campus ministry programs often include worship services, prayer groups, retreats, religious education classes, volunteer opportunities, and social events. The goal is to create a supportive environment where individuals can explore and deepen their spiritual beliefs, connect with others of similar faith backgrounds, and engage in service-oriented activities that reflect their religious values. Campus ministry plays a crucial role in supporting students’ holistic development, offering guidance during times of personal growth, academic challenges, and transitions into adulthood.
Care for the Elderly
Care for the elderly encompasses a range of services and support aimed at meeting the physical, emotional, and social needs of older adults. It involves providing assistance with daily activities such as personal hygiene, medication management, and meal preparation. Additionally, care for the elderly often includes healthcare services, social interaction, recreational activities, and transportation assistance. The goal is to enhance quality of life, promote independence to the extent possible, and ensure a safe and comfortable environment for seniors. Care can be provided in various settings, including nursing homes, assisted living facilities, and through home care services, tailored to meet the specific needs and preferences of each individual.
